astonclough

This is the kind of discussion that gets better over time if people keep adding real examples and not just broad opinions.

I looked through this again recently and I think the best replies are the ones that explain the reasoning, not just the final choice.

I came back to this because it is still relevant.

What stands out to me here is how much context changes the answer. Two people can make different decisions for good reasons.

This discussion still feels useful, especially for newer readers.

Revisiting this now, I think the most helpful replies are still the ones that explain what changed someone’s thinking after more experience.