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I came back to this because it is still relevant.

Revisiting this now, I think the most helpful replies are still the ones that explain what changed someone’s thinking after more experience.

What stands out to me here is how much context changes the answer. Two people can make different decisions for good reasons.

I wanted to bump this because it still feels like the kind of topic readers search for when they are trying to make a real decision. The strongest rep...

Coming back to this thread later, I think the value is in the details people share from actual experience. A lot of online answers look useful at firs...