maryjok

I had this bookmarked and wanted to revisit it.

This is the kind of discussion that gets better over time if people keep adding real examples and not just broad opinions.

Worth bringing this one back up because the question still matters.

What stands out to me here is how much context changes the answer. Two people can make different decisions for good reasons.

Still one of the better threads on this topic.

This discussion still feels useful, especially for newer readers.